Geneva teen gets three years for enticing 12-year-old for sex:
I originally posted about Branden Wayne Utley here. The now 19-year-old from Geneva, Alabama was arrested back in October of 2010 for sending nude pictures of himself to a 12-year-old girl that he met on MySpace and MyYearbook. He even tried to lure the girl to a park for sex which I call child rape.
Last week Utley was sentenced to 3 years behind bars. His lawyer and his family wanted probation only for Utley arguing that he was just a “teenager looking for love”. Also trying the ‘he didn’t know she was 12 defense’.
The judge even noted his lack of remorse when sentencing him. I’m guessing the law only allowed him to be sentenced to three years which is a shame. He’ll be 22 when he gets out and will be on the sex offender registry but I doubt either of those things will discourage him in the future.
Real Crime with Trench Reynolds 
Why don’t people watch their kids online activities? My daughter just turned 11 and I’m like her shadow when it comes to playing online. She’s usually just playing games, but she only talks to people she already knows (that I also know) and has settings on private, friends only, etc. She doesn’t even attempt to change them. She just leaves them that way.
A guy that lives behind us over the bayou, tried luring a younger teen girl online and he has a younger sister the same age as the girl! He was about the same age as that guy up there. Maybe 20-21? These creepy guys are all over the internet. THAT’S why I am my daughter’s shadow. She has common sense but parents should still know what’s going on regardless of how smart the kids are.
I once made a 12 yr old girl’s profile and used a normal picture of myself that looked recent but it was from 1982, just to see what would happen. Immediately a man (a teacher!) IMed me and wasted no time talkin’ filthy. I told him off and logged off. THAT’S why I am my daughter’s shadow.
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It’s a huge problem with too many parents of my generation. They’re too busy trying to be the cool parent rather than being a good parent.
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You should look into doing that for Perverted Justice… it’s the organization that helps produce the “To Catch a Predator” series, and they’re always looking for volunteers to help catch these people.
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I don’t know if I could do that. I’d want to punch the perverts through the screen.
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I often feel that way, too… and that’s dealing with the pervs in discussions linked to news articles and blog posts. But with the volunteer work you get the satisfaction of seeing their name and the entire discussion posted to the perverted justice website for all to see (after it’s used by prosecution to convict the bastard.) 🙂
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This is why I do not, will not, and never have had a home PC. Plus, if we did have one, we would all be fighting over who gets to play farmville or watch YouTube videos and nothing would ever get done around the house! *i make jokes when disgusted, it takes the edge off*
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I think we all need to turn to humor to deal with this stuff from time to
time.
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I am a computer geek so I block my son’s internet to websites that I approve of only. I can’t watch his online activity all of the time no matter how much I would like to so I implemented the the filter on the websites. He is not allowed on any social networking websites and the chats on the sites aare blocked because I have disabled the active x and java applets, so he cannot even see the chats. Maybe a little extensive? Could be, but when he gets to an unauthorized website, he ha to come to me and fix it so I always know what he is doing, plus when he is at school I do go through his history…..
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I think that locking up a 19 year old is disgusting and a sign of the times. Sex is not bad. Never has been nor will it ever be. How dare you people treat a young man like this. It will backfire in your face. He was being human. So what if he liked young girls? Gay men are still being hung in Iran. Think about it.
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Think about what? That same sex relationships and child molestation are in the same ballpark? Not even close son. They’re not even in the same sport.
If you think that gay people condone child molestation they don’t. They are as equally repulsed by it as straight people.
You are neither. You’re just pedophile defending scum.
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Gay men don’t typically troll the internet for little boys. How dare you compare homosexuality with pedophilia? How dare you try to claim that it’s OK for adults to have any sort of sexual contact with children. The shit you’re shoveling is going to backfire in your face. It always does.
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I think you’re a moron, a troll and a fucking pervert. I guess we are all entitled to our opinions, right?
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I personally knew of a girl who was about 12-ish. She was TOTALLY dominant. Not only did she know what she wanted but she wanted it when and exactly how she wanted it. How dare you presume that because there was a male involved that she must have been a victim?? How naive you are shocks me. aliwaltens@aol.com
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How exactly did you know her Alastair? Sounds like to me that you knew her more intimately than you should have.
The law and most rational members of society say that she is a victim.
12-year-old girls are not for being your sex plaything.
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Sex-plaything?? Omg. You are seriously more naive than i previously thought. I can’t even pin-point sexually naive or just with reality in general? If you believe that i have treated a young girl, ever as a play-thing then you are most definately wrong. It is not a matter of one person exerting their power and domination above another. Sex should be, (in normal circumstances) done in a respectful and mutual way.
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Douchenozzle, sex can’t be mutually respectful if one of the
“participants” is a minor, and the other is an adult.
Give up the dream. The AoC laws will never be abolished. Children will
always be off-limits to perverts like you.
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Not to mention that sex with a 12-year-old is never normal circumstances.
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What the fuck is even sexy about a 12-year-old. I know some look mature, but what in the fuck can an adult and a 12-year-old even have in common? Jeebus.
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Her age alone makes her the victim. If you can’t see that, then someone should be keeping an eye on the children in your neighborhood. An adult should NEVER be involved with a child.
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I’m quite stunned at your reply. An adult should NEVER be involved with a child??? hhhmmmm, now let’s think about that one. Who teaches children? An adult. Who protects children?? An adult. Who forces a child to believe in a God when there is not one? An adult. Who emotionally damages children? An adult. (most of the time a mother, in this western, modern culture of ours) Who is in charge of the whole world? An adult. If you were to look at the actual statistics Who is more likely to have sex with your kids? KIDS. not an adult. Wake up and read the truth.
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Ah, so typical of pedovores…. take comments literally and out of context when it suits, and twist every other comment because it suits.
You know as well as every other person who read MJ’s comment, that she meant no adult should ever be sexually involved with a child. But you, being a pro-pedophile activist, chose to twist what MJ said to suit your own twisted purpose.
Of all the emotionally damaged people I’ve ever known, those that were the most emotionally devastated all suffered child sexual abuse at the hands of adults.
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You are such a fucktard! The more comments you make, the more ignorant and stupid you sound. Why don’t you go crawl back into your parents basement, drink some bleach and call it a day.
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Ignorant and stupid? Not so much. He’s trying to groom us, adults, because in his twisted little brain he believes that he can change our minds about adults having sexually abusing children (and he can try all he wants to get people to believe there’s such a thing as non-abusive adult/child sexual contact… maybe we’ll get lucky and he’ll hold his breath ’till he passes out… in front of oncoming traffic. Then we won’t have to suffer his nonsense anymore.)
But this is what pro-pedophile activists do. He’s not doing a study to “help the police protect children” (as he claimed in the profile he filled out for my website… if he thinks I’d let him join my site, he really needs to put down the crack pipe.) He’s not doing it to help anyone except their cause, and that is the normalization of adult/child sex.
In other words, he’s playing games.
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Dammit! I accidentally liked this retards comment. Stunned? Really? Just because your mother emotionally damaged you does not mean all mother’s do. Some parents are very protective of their children while others are not a 12 year old CHILD is precisely that a dog gone CHILD and any sexual relations with a child is very wrong. Also, you are aware that the only reason that children like this are maturing physically at such a young age is the steriods in the food, mentally they are not capable of making these types of decisions. I am not against sex at all, but I do know that young children should not be partaking in these activities. I am rather disgusted at this, maybe 15 or 16 year old kids but even then still its wrong, they still kind of look like infants.
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Her age alone makes her the victim. If you can’t see that, then someone should be keeping an eye on the children in your neighborhood. An adult should NEVER be involved with a child.
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Out of purely morbid curiosity, how old were you when you knew this girl?
Do us a favor and keep typing. Show the world how the twisted mind of a pedophile works.
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I will keep typing. I will keep conversing with you as long as you can deal with it. For a start, Pedophile is actually spelled Paedophile. Secondly. I would like to ask you, why do you assume i have a twisted mind? Have you not possibly considered that the beliefs that you uphold may be flawed? Ever?
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Pedophile is spelled Paedophile if you’re in the UK. The spellcheckers in the US actually underline your spelling in red. Since Trench is based in the US, I spell it the US way. When responding to someone in the UK, I change the spelling.
Secondly, I’m not assuming anything about you. You do have a twisted mind, and your beliefs are flawed. Yes, I did consider, once, for the briefest of moments, that I might be wrong. Then I remembered what it was like to be a 12 year old child, myself. And guess what? You guessed it, I came to the conclusion that I’m right and any adult who touches a child in a sexual way needs to be removed from society.
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BTW, you never answered my question. How old were you when you knew that child?
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Notice…..he did not answer the question. I think someone should report this convo. Jus’ sayin.
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It’s being taken care of, Rochell. 🙂
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Dear Lord. Thank you, this fuckwad has had me on the verge of vomitting for sometime now….
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You’re a sick fuck! Oh, and ignorant to boot.
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I really don’t appreciate that sort of a comment. If you have something to say to add to the argument then please do. I need to speak with more adults who experienced sex at an early age and if you did then please talk with me. I’m not talking about abuse etc, but at what age did you start having feelings that may qualify as having a sexual interest?
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I’m pretty sure that if Trench had a problem with Ginger’s comment, he’d say
so. Also pretty sure that it’s safe for me to let you know that you have no
place directing the conversation on his blog. If you feel you have the
right to go into someone else’s home (ie. Trench’s blog) and shovel your
shit everywhere, then I think that Ginger has at least as much right to
voice her opinions of you and said shit.
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I not only had no problem with it I voted it up.
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I don’t really appreciate you being a sick fuck who thinks it’s okay to have sex with CHILDREN. I don’t really appreciate the fact that you won’t treat yourself to a fatal cocktail of drano and antifreeze. The world would be a much better place without another pervert trolling for kids. Do us all a favor and fuck off, would you?
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Ignore him, Ginger… there are those of us who really do appreciate your comments.
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BTW, no one is presuming that because there was a male involved that she was a victim. Everyone with a soul and a conscience knows, however, that if there is an adult that is sexually involved with a child, then the child is being victimized by the adult.
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So, Alex, how old were you when you knew that 12 year old girl? I answered your question, but you still refuse to answer mine. How ’bout it, Alex, you going to man up and answer the question already?
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A 12-year-old that was clearly groomed to be a plaything for a sick fuck like you.
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Dude 12? Really…..thanks for making me vomit you POS! My son is 10 and my best friends daughter is 12, she’s a baby not a woman. Totally dominant my arse! Maybe totally manipulated. How can you think this is ok? You seriously, like I said previously, need a shrink.
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I think a lobotomy would work far more effectively than a shrink.
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I personally knew of a girl who was about 12-ish. She was TOTALLY dominant. Not only did she know what she wanted but she wanted it when and exactly how she wanted it. How dare you presume that because there was a male involved that she must have been a victim?? How naive you are shocks me. aliwaltens@aol.com
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If a 12 year old girl acts that way, there is something wrong in her life. She needs help. Normal 12 year olds are just getting out of the Barbie phase and starting to like lip gloss and clothes. Not throwing themselves at boys and men. A real man would not take advantage of an emotionally broken little girl.
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Lori. If a 12 year old girl is at that age, EMOTIONALLY BROKEN then let me put it to you, she was abused emotionally primarily. What, in her life made her so broken? Most paedophiles would never touch a child like her. They would give her the love and understanding that she needed, that she certainly didn’t get from her own family environment. I’m trying to analyze here the difference between SEX and ABUSE of a child. If you knew where i was coming from you’d understand better. I believe that there is a fear of sex generally and that should stop. Do you not understand that sexuality is natural? Normal? It’s how we deal with it in a modern society that is the problem. If you open your eyes instead of hiding behind your, “highly religious, anti-everything not american” culture, then you may understand. I am VERY much into child-protection. I will die before i ever saw a child hurt emotionally or physically, etc.
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Oh, wow… care to share another line or two of complete bullshit? That is exactly the kind of child that a predator would go after. Easy prey, less work to get what you want from her, and she’s less likely to talk to anyone about it. Isn’t that in all the “how to groom a child for sex” books written by pro-pedophile activists?
Yep, that’s all a part of the grooming process. And just when she has started to trust you, *Whammo!* You hit her with the expectation of sexual contact… or you just start out in such a way that she doesn’t even realize what’s happening until it’s too late.
See, that’s your problem right there. You’re trying to find a difference where there is none.
Is it getting deep in here? Stinky, too… say, does anyone have a spare pare of high rubber boots and a shovel?
Now, if that were true, you’d have jumped from the nearest pier with a cinder block tied round your neck long ago. Because you spreading this bullshit around is going to hurt children by encouraging other perverts to abuse children. Oh, sure they’ll say it was “mutually consensual”, but you and I both know that’s a lot of BS. You and I both know that the pro-pedophile activists and RSOLers are all over the place claiming that their victims “wanted it”, and should “get over it and get on with their lives”.
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Banging children is hurting them emotionally and often physically. Don’t bullshit.
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Protective Services would be interested in you. And not as an applicant.
Now, I’ll no longer feed the Douche-Troll.
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Do you not at least understand that there are many cultures around the world? I can certainly tell that the adverse comments that i have received are from Americans. How many of you people who have commented negatively against me have ever travelled? Have you ever spoken to different humans around the world? Have you ever spoken to women and men who had sexual experiences when they were young? I have. Plenty. I am writing a book on the subject at this very time. I don’t mind you being angry and hostile towards me. I would very much like for you to express your opinions though. It will help me understand human psychology better. Please remember, before you do give me details as to how you would like to see me hanged etc, i experienced sex at a young age perpetrated by some girls older than myself. We all loved it and it was done in an innocent, loving and friendly way. What is it in your culture that makes you people so scared and in actual fact, paranoid about human sexuality?
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Grrreaaat…. just what the world needs. Another piece of pedophile
propaganda to be sold on Amazon.
Guess what… marrying child brides off to old men in Pakistan doesn’t make
it right because it’s in Pakistan. Let children be children and stop trying
to twist their lives to suit your perverted world views.
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Dodia, please may i ask you? Did you experience negative child-sex experiences yourself as a child? Please don’t get me wrong. I AM NOT SUPPORTING THE ABUSE OF CHILDREN. I am trying to understand your point of view as against every single other person, alive, on this planet. Why is your opinion correct and noone else’s is? I am only trying to differentiate between abuse and sex. It’s part of a study. If you experienced negative sexual incidents when you were young then i am saying sorry to you for something that i didn’t do to you? But i will still say it. SORRY. Please forgive me for being who i am. My motivation and belief is that sex is an human trait and can never be eradicated. The situation is going to get worse. I say ‘worse’ from your point of view and not mine. From my point of view i say ‘better’ because the more a child knows from an earlier stage in their life will actually help to protect them. My sexual teaching at school was a picture of a sperm and an egg. TOTALLY REDICULOUS.
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You may ask anything you want, but the only answer you’ll get to that question is “no”. I’ll not give you any personal information. And I’ll encourage anyone else asked by a pervert for “their story” not to give it.
Eh… What? That actually makes no sense… Are you trying to claim that mine is the only opinion that is against CSA? Because if that’s the case, you’re delusional. I have many contacts in the UK, and I’m willing to put out there that the vast majority of UK residents are actually against any sort of adult/child sexual contact. Are you trying to say that’s not the case?
Here’s a little piece of information that might help you to realize that you’re quest is a waste of time: We vastly outnumber you. And that’s never going to change.
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I hate the way that you put down the ability of a younger adult to be able to say what is good, nice, scary, frightening, lovely, pleasant etc, etc. You have been indoctrinated with ONE particular belief. Let me put it to you this way. In some states in america, a child of 10 can legally divorce his or her parents??? So you are arguing with me that a single child can seek legal advice and divorce his or her parents?
Is that not saying that it is accepted that at age 10, a young man or woman ACTUALLY knows what is best for them???? Maybe that is a very true fact and it is a sign of the times that in this western world we seem to have forgotten the true values in bringing up children in the first place???? And so what, if an older man gives some sexual pleasure to a young adult? That man must go to prison for the rest of his life??? Please seriously think about what you are saying a little more deeply. I want to protect children but i am also non-biased and am accepting nature.
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It’s not “indoctrination” Alex, it’s common sense.
Do a bit of research on child brain development. The frontal lobes of children aren’t yet developed enough to be able to make the sort of decisions that could be live-changing (and potentially life-threatening). Their Amygdala is the more active part of their brains at that time, which further effects their ability to make logical decisions.
But predators like you count on that. It makes it far easier for you to groom a child and have your way with them, and also far easier for you to convince them that it was their fault, that they wanted it, that if they tell, they’ll be hated or someone will get hurt, etc.
In those parts of the US where a child can divorce their parents, those cases are based on situations involving abuse and/or neglect, and that child must have an adult who is willing to take over their care. And a child of 10 is not a “young man” or a “young woman”… they’re a CHILD. And no, they most often don’t know what’s best for themselves. A girl of 10 who thinks that she should be allowed to become pregnant would be putting her health, and potentially her life, in jeopardy if she did so because her body isn’t yet developed enough to safely carry a pregnancy to term or go through the process of childbirth. There are girls of 11, 12, even 15, who’s bodies have been permanently damaged from this process. Do a bit of research on the statistics of complications for children going through this process as opposed to adults.
You’re not “non-biased”, and you certainly don’t want to “protect children”. You’re a pervert attempting to recruit other perverts to a cause that will get nowhere. You’re attempting to change the minds and hearts of decent people about something that we know to be harmful to children, and that will never work.
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There are also places in Africa where witch doctors tell people that they should rape a virgin child to cure AIDS. Does that mean we should adopt that practice in the first world? How about female ‘circumcision’ that is practiced in some parts of the Arab world? Should we adopt that too?
And as far as people being disgusted with pedophiles it is hardly an American thing. I have friends and readers from the UK, Canada and Australia just to name a few who are equally if not more disgusted with cretins that think like you.
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You must carry out some research yourself. Do you have any idea how many young girls are harmfully circumcised in your country? Please check it out.
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All the cases in America of female genital mutilation are carried out by one sub-set of a religion.
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Are you assuming that no one here has done the research? It happens a lot in the UK, as well.
Trench’s point wasn’t that it happens, it was that the fact that it happens doesn’t make it right. The fact that people like you feel you should be entitled to carry out your perversions doesn’t mean that you are entitled.
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In fact, let me send you something Mohammed married a six year old bride. But Islam has
evolved in 1500 years. In Hamas land, in 2009, the brides
are almost seven.
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Which is why pedophiles flock to convert to Islam.
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Using “religion” as an excuse or means to abuse doesn’t make it right, either.
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Paranoid about human sexuality? Guess what, children are not sexual beings and should never be viewed as such. The majority of adults don’t look at children and think “um, I want me some of that”, if they do, they are a pervert, if they act on those thoughts, they are not only a pervert but a PEDOPHILE. I experienced sex at a young age perpetrated by a male who was older than myself (yet he was still under 18) and you know what, all I felt was violate, disgusted and used. My bad for thinking I was mature enough at 14 to make the decision to engage in sexual activity. Yes, it was a negative experience, but guess what as an adult, with another adult, good times. This is how NORMAL sex works you asshat!
Now, quit jerking it, go insert a fork in your eye up to the handle and maybe then through the pain you will find clarity and you will understand what DodiaFae meant when she said:
“you spreading this bullshit around is going to hurt children by encouraging other perverts to abuse children.”
You make me sick and angry I wish I could puke on you, you sick fuck.
Sorry I’m not as articulate as DodiaFae. I wish I could comment with her intelligence and insight *sigh*. You rock DodiaFae.
Ginger out.
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Don’t give him any personal information, Ginger. These pieces of shit just get off on it. My guess is that’s one of his primary reasons for questioning victims of CSA… he’s collecting child rape stories and he’s getting his rocks off on it.
That’s pretty articulate, Ginger. ) I might have to steal that one from you. And as far as I’m concerned, survivors of abuse like you are Heroes and rock stars.
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Bull. Adults banging children isn’t normal human sexuality – which is obvious since it often physically damages the vagina, anus or mouth of the child. That’s not psychology – that’s basic crime reporting. The majority of adults that molest children are not “attracted” to minors but are morally indiscriminate offenders or opportunists who prey on children because they’re easy to manipulate or control. The only adult “pedophiles” who are primarily fixated on children are basically retarded. Not me saying this – it’s forensic psychology:
http://www1.csbsju.edu/uspp/CrimPsych/CPSG-6.htm
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I repeat: It doesn’t matter what you or I or people think. It is ILLEGAL in the USA to have sex with a minor. End of story.
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I would like to say to the parents of Branden Wayne Utley, that you must forgive him for what he has done. The way that he was treated is very typical of the american court system in this day and age. There is an hysteria about human-sexuality in general and sometimes the state likes to target and publicly humiliate a young, weak and vulnerable young man in order to reinforce it’s laws and levels of ‘ethics’ upon society. Your son caused no pain, didn’t rape and cause emotional distress to anyone. Your son also didn’t force anyone to do anything, ever. This young girl knew and liked everything that was going on and was an active participant. Your son is a victim of what i would call ‘modern-naiveity towards human sexuality’. Give him my details. I would very much like to speak to him at sometime. I know he is in prison but if one of his family could call me, then please do. My number is 0044 1243 779689. I am conducting some research into this area and i am sure we can help each other.
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He was not weak and vulnerable – his victim was. Your pathology is showing.
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No concern for his victim, though? Typical. Oh, wait, let me guess… “She wanted it. She should just get over it and get on with her life.”
Only because he didn’t get the chance… but that’s assuming that this was the first time and his first victim.
This girl was 12 years old. Nothing more needs to be said.
Great… just what he needs… another pervert to cheer him on and convince him that degenerate behavior is “normal” so he can re-offend when he gets out.
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Uh-uh, no phone numbers. Either you’re a troll trying to get a bunch of angry people to call someone else’s phone or you’re a pdeo or pedo defending scum looking for others to join you.
And nice try trying to friend me on Facebook Alastair. I had you scoped out long before that.
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You don’t want to be associated with a pervert? I can’t imagine why?
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I REALLY hope Trench sends your IP to authorities, you fuck.
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Don’t worry, Soobs… it’s all being looked into. )
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i came over here for a good game of tardball, but it looks like Dodia and Ginger have it pretty well covered. all i have to add is that not only does Utley need killed with fire, so does Alastair.
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Tardball… *Snork!* It’s good that I already swallowed the sip of lemonade I was drinking or else I’d be cleaning my laptop instead of typing.
I learn the most amusing words and phrases on Trench’s blogs.
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this is why people don’t need to search for love on FB or Myspace, they get accused of stupid shit by stupid people, sure he was dumb for using the internet to find love…
The problem with society today is that people judge people they don’t even know, when they themselves are probably worse people. There is nothing worse to me than a hypocrite, and I would assume the one who wrote this is one. This dude was a kid who was fooled by a kids parent. Fuck the system, with inappropriate evidence that someone knows something about another person is just like me saying I know the president personally, its a lie. All are welcome to hate on this, but unless you know the whole story, then go down to the drug store, ask for something called Viagra, and use it to go fuck yourself 🙂
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Wow, that was barely coherent but I think I get the gist of it.
People have been using the internet almost since its inception to meet other people without being labeled a sex offender or pedophile. Your buddy on the other hand got caught sending pics of his junk to a 12-year-old girl. Most normal people don’t start off a relationship by sending pics of their junk before they meet. That’s what predators do.
Maybe you’ll realize that after you’ve grown up.
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1 go on any chatroulette style site and tell me you don’t find anyone’s junk and you have a decent argument,
2 He messed up, yes I agree, but when someone constantly tells you their 18, one tends to believe them.
3 “Sending nude pics” is a stupid trend that caught on forever ago, and most teens tend to do it. Some are asked to and they do as much. As gross as it may seem, its more common than most people think,
4 If I’m immature for defending a classmate, then i’d like to stay that way my entire life, because being “grown up” and full of hate just seems unhealthy.
As I said before, hate all you want. The dude only talked about massive breasts, seemed to be his obsession.
and on the internet part, there may have been some people who haven’t been labled, but theres those who were, those who were tricked(another friend of mine dated a chick for 3 months, then went to meet her and it turned out she was a dude with a chick voice) it just seems to be an untrustworthy area to “pick someone up.
5 Don’t assume when someone defends someone they aren’t adults, or grown up, or whatever.
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1. Chatroulette isn’t exactly a great place to start a relationship since it’s filled with penis waving perverts.
2. If you can’t tell the difference between a 12-year-old and an 18-year-old you’re an idiot.
3. I’m well aware of what kind of trend it is. That doesn’t make it right.
4. Defending a friend even though he’s a sexual predator doesn’t help you. You are the company you keep.
5. I can tell by your mindset that you have a lot of growing up to do.
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I have to apologize, look, Im not trying to get ticked at you, dude. I just don’t want, you know if he actually is innocent-in my mind he is but what do I know- I don’t want people like that Alistair creep talking to him about “The wonders of being a creep” He was very impressionable- pretty much did whatever anyone told him. Hell he didn’t even act like he wanted a relationship until people started picking on him our senior year.
Sorry if I seemed offensive, I was taking work out on the net after two 10 hour shifts (gotta keep my family in a home.)For some reason someone shared this that was on my friends list, first time Ive seen it. But yeah, I do apologize if I seemed like a jerk to you, but Id still like to defend the guy, until I myself see him acting like a pedo. and no im not talking about this act, im saying if when he gets out and I look on his computer he’s been acting funny, hell ill report him right away if I see something like that. I’d rather him be away and getting help than destroying some kid’s life. I’m personally glad he got stopped where he did, bc if he went to some kid thinking she was an adult, that would be way worse.
I’m in no way defending any actual pedophile or however you spell it, im just posting on here in hopes that it WAS a mistake. Trench, I believe your the only one who actually has seen my name- I’d like to keep that private so I don’t get FB invites from weirdo’s like the one mentioned earlier. Please.
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Just an FYI from someone who has researched this sort of thing more extensively than the average person… pedophiles often seem to show no interest in relationships because they’re not interested in relationships with people their own age. He may very well have only started acting like he wanted a relationship senior year because he was afraid that people might figure out what he was. Also, no 12 year old looks 18. Not even in pictures. I know it’s difficult not to give people you felt you knew the benefit of the doubt, but let’s put it this way… if you had a 12 year old daughter, would you now trust this person to be alone with her?
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Doesn’t matter what you or I or people think. It is ILLEGAL in the USA to have sex with a minor. End of story.
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I personaly knew this guy. He was always crushing on girls in our class. He was a little desperate and lonely using myyearbook for dating but that is essentualy what that site promoted as its function. This was not a very thought out decision on his part but definitely not an intended result. He was a shorter guy and from my observation preferred shorter girls. This is just a simple dont send pictures of your genitalia to strangers story. I am definate in the fact that this is a horrible mistake on his part.
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Mistake my ass. He knew what he was doing. The judge even noted his lack of remorse. Odds are he’ll probably be arrested for doing the same thing.
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“Horrible mistake” does not mean that it was unintentional. Like Trench says, he knew exactly what he was doing.
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Welcome back Dodia.
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Thanks, Trench. I’m not really “back” back… just popping in now and then. I still get the notifications from BB, and I know you’re down one or two regulars (besides me), and April seems MIA. Glad to see you’re still keeping the site going. I know how hard it is to deal with.
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Either way it’s good to see you.
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This IS a very old post, but it IS about something that happened to me.
So it started when AIM and Cam PM were all the rage at sleepovers at all of my friend’s homes.
My closest friend and I discovered porn sites, during one of our sleepovers at her house and began exploring both individual & mutual masturbation togther. During our sleepovers, we would often go to Chats and find other girls our age and share, and sometimes, we would exchange porn site addresses.
We would get and make dares to each other kiss and “show” for more porn sites.
Masturbating on cam with other girls our age became our “thing” and sending nude and close up images quickly followed.
To this, we were a small group of five of us all within the same age exploring our bodies as well as each others.
(One younger sister participated in all mutual activity at sleepovers, but not with her sibling when they hosted)
Soon it started spilling over outside the sleepover setting that it originated in, as both my parents worked, I had a few hours after school of complete privacy, which I used almost daily to masturbate online, cam to cam, with at least one of my friends.
As all preteen things do, it started to subside as our individual curiosity changed or dwindled or some guilt and shame set in.
Summers come and go, years and lives go by, you keep in touch but it’s not the same.
THEN…
I got an e mail from one of my friends telling me that our pics, taken years ago, were posted on some website. It seems that one of our “friends”, had at some point, forwarded a bunch of those pics we had sent each other, to a much older girl that she would cam with, and apparently she posted them, years ago, and they have been circulating on the web, and probably the dark web by now, ever since. I am trying to wrap my head around this.
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